Find a gap
A bardo is an in-between. Start by noticing you are already in several.
One day for each chapter. Each day carries a short exercise, a meditation prompt, and a question to write on. Ten to fifteen minutes is enough; the point is that you keep doing it, not that you do it well.
Nothing here is medical advice or religious instruction. The bedside notes stay within scope of practice — comfort, presence, communication and referral — and make no claim about the course of any illness.
The bardo we are in right now — birth to death. Impermanence, attachment, and the habits that will still be running when everything else stops.
A bardo is an in-between. Start by noticing you are already in several.
Move impermanence from an idea to an observation.
Separate holding someone from needing them not to change.
What is running on autopilot is what will still be running later.
Practise letting go of small things so the skill exists at all.
The two rehearsal bardos. Sleep and stillness as the places where letting go can be practised while the stakes are low.
Sleep is the rehearsal the tradition puts before dying.
The dissolutions, the moment itself, and what the text asks of the people in the room.
What the tradition says happens after the senses have gone quiet.
Recognition at the moment the tradition considers decisive.
Language at the bedside. Short, true, unhurried.
Agitation, unfinished business, and rooms that are hard.
What the tradition asks of the people still in the room.
The visions of the chönyid bardo, read the way the tradition itself reads them — as mind, not as visitors.
Reading the visions as mind, not as visitors.
What kindness in the mind looks like when it appears.
Fear as material, read the way the tradition reads it.
Attraction, aversion, and the pull towards the comfortable option.
Rebirth, continuity, and the long work of grief for those left behind.
Daily practice, and bedside practice. What to actually do.
Build the smallest version that survives a bad week.
Close the programme and decide what continues.